How to connect to your Conan Exiles Server
To connect to your Conan Exiles, open the server browser by clicking Play Online from the title screen.
Now type in the name of your server here.
You can find the name of your server by going to the Startup section of the AleForge Panel

Keep in mind that if your server has any mods, has VAC disabled, or is private, one of these check boxes may be checked and hiding your server.

Your server should now appear in the server browser and you can click on it
and press Join at the bottom to connect to your server. If your server has a
password, you will be asked to enter it here.